Stephenhots, 69

GENTLEMAN SEEKS CLASSY LADY I’m Stephen. I am a 3rd generation Japanese-American born in Washington D.C. I have lived in 12 states - a corporate vagabond. After getting my MBA at Harvard, I started my career in marketing management at General Mills, running brands like Cheerios. My claim to fame was inventing Honey Nut Cheerios. I changed my focus to high tech running several computer companies and founded a high tech start up. A seminal event change by life when I was diagnosed with leukemia and given 3 years to live unless I had a bone marrow transplant. Finding a donor was a very long shot. But by the grace of God, I found my miracle match. My belief system was based on self reliance with the ego that I could control my life. When I was told that in order to live, I had to depend on the kindness and generosity of a complete stranger - my delusion of control just vanished. This epiphany was a gift that totally changed my priorities. Instead of focusing all my energy on material success, I now focus on family, friends, helping others and on living everyday to the fullest. I am now living on a 62’ sailboat in LA,. Well informed and traveled extensively, my favorite activities are: sailing, scuba diving, snow skiing, golf, dancing, travel, NYC theater and partaking in all of life’s pleasures. I am well informed, articulate, able to laugh at myself, a good conversationalist, a well mannered gentleman with aesthetic tastes. I am affectionate, love to touch and be touched, loyal, giving, passionate about important things, like kissing and cuddling, have deep conversations on any subject, considerate and a giving lover. I play the guitar and like to sing. I don’t smoke, don’t do drugs, social drinker and disease free.

I'm a romantic at heart. Kind and generous. Non-judgmental and quick to help.